Saturday, September 5, 2009

3rd September: Go and gone!!

I know I decided to change the tone of this blog, but i still cannot afford to miss 'D' date or the purpose for which it was created. But the inevitable happened and I forgot about it completely. In fact, I remembered on 5th that 3rd was history. That's when I decided that it was time to say something on the blog.

Well, 3rd may have gone without either of us noticing it but there was one thing that didn't go unnoticed. Well, being almost bedridden for most of the week, I had other things on my mind and so forgetting the important date is forgiven.

But what I did see and appreciate during this past week were how much Mohit nursed me back to good health. I have never seen him help me go to the toilet or get me a glass of water or make sure I am eating the right food or if I am taking all the medicines on time. And while on the worst day of being unwell, I had never known the relief I felt when he walked in to hold the hand that had the drip attached. Ya, he didn't feel stressed out like I did or did a good cover up act. And he didn't say he is worried for me in the events preceding to the hospital visit, he just stood for me. And he hasn't complained as I haven't served him breakfast for the past 3 days or matched his clothes for him or hung his wet towel out to dry. He is doing it all dutifully by himself and doing much more for me too. Well, maybe guys love their girls but just don't show it. It's when the chips are down that their actions speak louder than words....

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